Life Lessons From a Steak Dinner
Last night, Rachel and I went to Texas Roadhouse—one of our favorite spots. For the money, it’s hard to beat their steak. Rachel has a go-to order: the 6 oz sirloin. It’s her thing, and she loves it.
But last night, I convinced her to go for the 8 oz sirloin. When it came out, it was thicker than she expected. After a few bites, she looked at me and said, “I like my 6 oz. I should stick with what I like.”
Now, I’m the opposite. I’ll try something new on the menu just for fun. But Rachel? She knows what works for her, and she’s happy to stick with it. Honestly, there’s something refreshing about that. It got me thinking—how often do we let someone (or even ourselves) talk us into something that doesn’t really fit who we are?
The Power of Knowing What Works
There’s something freeing about knowing yourself—your preferences, your priorities, and what truly brings you joy. Rachel’s 6 oz sirloin is more than just a favorite meal; it’s a reminder that you don’t have to chase something “bigger” to find contentment.
Proverbs 4:26 says, “Give careful thought to the paths for your feet and be steadfast in all your ways.” In other words, there’s wisdom in knowing the right path for you—and walking it with confidence.
The more I thought about it, the more I realized how much Rachel’s steak order mirrored some deeper truths about life:
Appreciate What You Love: If something works for you—whether it’s a habit, a routine, or even a favorite meal—there’s no shame in sticking with it.
Don’t Feel Pressured to Upsize: Bigger doesn’t always mean better. Sometimes the “8 oz steak” of life just doesn’t fit, and that’s okay.
Try New Things (But Be Honest About What You Like): Stepping out of your comfort zone can be good—but so is knowing when to come back to what feels right.
Finding Joy in the Simple Things
Last night reminded me that it’s not about what looks impressive or what others suggest. It’s about finding joy in the things that fit you best. Whether that’s a 6 oz sirloin, a daily habit, or a life decision, there’s peace in knowing yourself and trusting your instincts.
So, the next time someone nudges you to try the “bigger steak,” take a moment to pause. Ask yourself: Do I really want this? If the answer’s no, don’t be afraid to smile, stick with what you love, and enjoy every bite.
